

A View From The Quiet Side of Parenthood
Posted
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- Sep
- 2
- 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson
The Helping Fathers Heal Dad's Retreat
by Michael & Dennis Zahorchak
Arizona's sun bore witness to a transformation, a crucible of healing forged by the very men who carry the weight of absence. This wasn't just a retreat; it was a seismic shift, a cathartic unearthing where fathers, weathered by grief, found solace and strength in each other's silence and shared stories. The air crackled with an almost palpable energy as they surrendered to the wisdom of guest speakers, their hushed conversations weaving a tapestry of vulnerability and resilience. These men, a constellation of strength and sorrow, didn't just attend; they *built* this sanctuary, their collective spirit the bedrock of its resounding success.
And then there were the mediums, conduits of a love that transcends the veil. They chipped away at the armor of skepticism, reaching into the deepest recesses of hearts, igniting sparks that would forever alter the landscape of these men's lives. Witnessing this, one could almost feel the palpable excitement vibrating from the other side. The children, their spirits more vibrant than ever, clamored for attention, their ghostly "hellos" and greetings ringing through the space, a chorus of eternal love. Tears, a torrent of them, flowed – tears of sorrow, yes, but ultimately, they were drowned out by the overwhelming tide of pure, unadulterated happiness, born from the profound, soul-stirring connections forged in this sacred space. Every gathering, whether the pivotal Helping Fathers Heal retreat or the biennial Helping Parents Heal conference, is a testament to the extraordinary bonds that form among those who understand the singular, defining truth: loss.
Our deepest gratitude, a reverberation of the profound impact, extends to the Sheraton Grande at Wild Horse Pass. Once again, they opened their doors, their very essence, to this brotherhood of grieving hearts, enveloping them in an embrace as familiar and comforting as home itself. And to the unwavering leaders of Helping Fathers Heal, whose dedication fueled this monumental event, a heartfelt thank you. Finally, to Elizabeth and Irene, the architects of this extraordinary family, a world of thanks for cultivating a haven where healing finds its truest expression.
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