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Erin and Phil Bentkowski's Validation from their daughter Grace through Medum Drew

Erin and Phil Bentkowski's Validation from their daughter Grace through Medum Drew

  • Posted
    • Aug
    • 24
    • 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson

Grace / Medium Drew

 

It has taken Phil and I, 4 days to wrap our brains around the entire reading Medium Drew did Tuesday night. We have listened to it numerous times now to try and understand how all these kiddo's come through together. Drews reading was not our first with HPH and each and every one we have had with different mediums reveals more and more. 

First let me tell you that our Grace passed tragically and unexpectedly in July 2024.  Leaving us and her younger Brother (her best friend) and the day of Drew's Reading was her Brother Adian's 21st birthday.  
We all know what piggy backing now is, and I can tell you it is 100% true.  I don't know how or why it works that way.  We could take parts of every readinging Drew did Tuesday night. Grace was sprinkled in every single one. In so many ways that I could write a novel. Drew first started with the name Adian.  Our son (Grace's Brother) Name and it was his 21st Birthday that day. Even though that reading might not have been for us, it was the name. Every reading after was part of Grace too. I could go on and on.  Names, family members, references to baseball (her dad and brothers sport). EVERY reading had our Grace sprinkled in there.
When Drew got to Phil and I , it was just like an overlap from those wonderful parents before us. A lovely lady Phylis was before us and so much of that reading was similar to our Grace.  Then Drew got to us and my husband's name is Phil. Drew mentioned yoga and the name Samantha.  Our Grace Did Yoga with her best friend Samantha the night before she was killed.  The fact Drew got the name "Samantha" was crazy and the yoga part. The fact it was a sudden impact that she was "her one moment and gone the next"/  The fact she wanted us to know she felt no pain (which has been on my mind since the day it happened). He also mentioned a little white dog...that was our Oreo or I should say Grace's dog that passed the April before her. I knew Oreo would be waiting for her on the other side.
Those were all overlays from earlier readings. When Drew came to us he mentioned a Blue Car.  That my husband bought her a car.  That was true.  It was red but when we look back it had blue LED lights on the inside that lighted up the interior of the car. He said "I was here one moment and gone and WTF" Which is also true. That it was ok to give away her "stuff" which we have been doing to her friends. And I was not sure if she was ok with that...obviously, she is LOL. 
Drew then mentioned the month of April (the month my dad died) and he instantly got the name "Bill" which was my fathers name. My dad then brought in my Husbands dad...who made fun of Phil's gray hair and beard...which he would have done. Drew also mentioned "being possitive" and to not go down a dark rabbit hole (which I have been).  I totally understood that. He also mentioned Samantha/Sam meeting a boy and maybe getting engaged.  Her BFF Sam had just started dateding a boy right before Grace Transitioned and the last video Grace sent was to Samantha to that boy saying "Our Sammy wammy says you are a great guy and I can't wait to meet you.  That was sent the night before Grace Transitioned. What the last thing Drew said was about the color "Purple".  In the moment we did not understand.. After the zoom call Phil and I were like OMG!!!!  Phil has been a long time fan of VW Bugs and he JUST bought a PURPLE VINTAGE VW BUG!  She KNEW he loved cars and VW bugs.  So she is here with us...that I know.  I know we would all love to have them here in the physical but with HPH we can stilll know they are here with us though we can't see them.  THANK YOU DREW AND HPH!!!!
-Erin and Phil
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