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Erin & Phil Bentkowski's Validation with their daughter Grace through Beth Lunch

Erin & Phil Bentkowski's Validation with their daughter Grace through Beth Lunch

  • Posted
    • May
    • 4
    • 2026
by Elizabeth Boisson

We had a wonderful reading from Beth Lynch, 2 days before our Grace's 2nd Heavenly Birthday. 

So much of Beth's reading was related to things that were current validations. Present day things  that showed us Grace is still with us every day. First, Beth mentioned "peanuts" before she even started the readings.  We just bought a jar of peanuts that day!
Beth then mentioned a female showing her coffee mugs and that she had a brother.  The mugs were Grace's as I had been cleaning and even told my husband "what do I do with all Grace's Mugs?". She also has a younger brother. 
Once Beth picked my husband and I and started the reading, she knew she was with us and Grace. Beth said "Mario..say Mario" and we found our after that her brother and his girlfriend had just started playing the Mario Cart video game the last few days. Beth said Grace was excited to come through and to look at the picture of her smiling.  I have that picture right next to my computer and I look at it every day. She described her personality and her love of music. Beth then said the name "Mike" who is my brother, Grace's Uncle and Godfather. Beth then said Grace was saying "I love you guys so much and you know I am ok".  I definitely needed to hear that. She mentioned cracking and Egg and I had just done that the day before and am a avid "Baker" and would always make her favorite Chocolate Cake. The Beth brought up Flowers and my husband had just brought home 3 bunches of flowers that day. 
Beth brought up a person with a problem with their torso or abdomen.  At that point we could not think of what that could mean until AFTER the reading we remembered Grace's best guy friend had JUST had his appendix removed THE DAY BEFORE! She Mentioned my Husbands tattoo also. She mentioned her confusion when she transitioned (because it was so fast) and that my Grandmother was there to greet her. She mentioned that she was "With God" and to say "I'm good you know I am safe and  not to worry" and "Mom I love you and that Dad was still protecting her.".  She said Grace said to give a few mugs to her brother and it was ok to get rid of the rest.  She also mentioned the letter "C" which Grace's Middle name is Marie Clare and so is my middle name and her boyfriend got a cat and named her "Clare" after Grace.  It was a beautiful reading and we cannot thank Beth and HPH enough for this amazing reading.  Thank you to all the HPH parents and for this wonderful group.  Sending much lve!
-Erin & Phil Bentkowski
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