Erin & Phil Bentkowski's Validation with their daughter Grace through Lisa Wilcoxson
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- Feb
- 2
- 2026
by Elizabeth Boisson
Hello everyone. I wanted to write a validation for the Gallery reading we had with Lisa Wilcoxson January 27th.
There was so so much piggybacking through out the reading and so much resonated with Phil and I. At the end of the readings, Lisa started bringing through our daughter Grace. She mentioned that she was being shown her younger but that he thought she was older in her late teens. Grace had just turned 22 but always looked much younger than her age. She also mentioned long beautiful curly wavy hair, which Grace had, Lisa mentioned her love of water which Grace most surely did. She loved the ocean and to travel and enjoy all things water. Actually, when Lisa was giving her first bit of evidence she mentioned a sweet 16 party but we never got to expand on that, But yes we had a huge Sweet 16 Party for her and all her friends at a venue with all fun kid things and a dance from and DJ. She loved it, Lisa mentioned freckles and yes Grace did have them when she was younger. That she loved the swimming pool. Grace actually worked at our neighborhood pool when she was 14 to 16.
Lisa then mentioned rainbows as a sign from her which is also true.That she was a beautiful sweet girl and she was. Everyone loved her. Lisa mentioned "Pizza" and that is a inside joke because every since she left it seems her dad and I have tried every frozen pizza there is (easier then thinking about what to cook lol), Lisa said she worked with kids and still does, That is true, Grace was a mentor for all the students at college for her Major. She was the Executive Producer for her News Program at college and taught the kids the ropes when they started as freshman.
Then Lisa mentioned the band Cold Play and we knew it was Grace. We used to watch SNL as a family and after she transitioned her brother and I were watch SNL and the band Cold Play was the guest and listening to the songs that night we knew they were from her to us and we just cried the whole time.
Lisa said she saw "typing typing typing" and Grace was a working Journalist so all she did was type stories all day long.
Grace transitioned in a tragic accident and I have been so worried that she felt pain but Lisa assured me and everyone that our loved ones leave their body before they feel any pain. She then mentioned "Woodworking" or something with her name cut out. Actually the newsroom at school had a Plaque in her honor created and hung in the Newsroom at college. Lisa said that we say her name all the time, which we do. ALL the Time! We talk about her constantly, Lisa said she loved music which she did. Her and her boyfriend would go to every concert known to man. She mentioned Grace was telling her that she is the one sending us the 'Numbers" which Grace does to us all the time.
Then Lisa was shown a Pacifier, I told Lisa that the night before last of the reading I had a dream Grace was a toddler and then turned into a baby with her pacifier, Lisa said that was her telling us she will always be our baby and that when we all transition we will all be together and fly off like Peter Pan. And lastly, she mentioned a clown and Grace was that. She could be serious but mostly a sweet adorable clown that made everyone laugh.
How lucky to have a wonderful reading from Lisa. We thank you so much! I know there are so so many other items I missed writing here but this is so long as it is. Thank you Lisa and HPH for all you do for us all.
~Love Erin & Phil
Please watch the Gallery Reading by clicking here.

