Erin & Phil Bentkowski's Validation with their daughter Grace through Nicole Willett

Nicole had mentioned many things that fit with us.  She said she had a young female, Chest hurt, that she transitioned before her full life was experienced and that it was "out of the blue" and "not expected",  Nicole said she had light hair and yes Grace had Blonde hair. That there was someone she was very close with that she did not get to say goodbye to and we know that was her brother.  They were extremely close. Nicole mentioned she was in the hospital and they had to fill her lungs with air which was also true. That a nurse was there holding her hand and that we were not with her.  That is true. we were at the hospital but were not allowed to see her. Then Nicole mentioned something "weird" and it was Aliens....and I knew she was talking to us.

Since Grace transitioned I have been interested in other worldly topics such as Aliens and UFO's and researching the topic to keep my mind busy.  I told Nicole I could hear Grace laughing at me for that. Nicole mentioned a date or numbers 2/13.  At the time I did not put 2 and 2 together but after I realized that was the day I had just had a doctor's appointment. 

Nicole said it was ok to be Happy and I do struggle with that. That Graces Dad and I need to stick together and support each other and have Grace with each other....Which is when I told Nicole that "Grace" was our daughters name.  

We want to Thank  Nicole and all the wonderful HPH members and parents that allow us to join together and reach our children and support each other.to feel we are never alone in our path.