Erin & Phil Bentkowski's Validation with their daughter Grace through Shelly Wilson (1)

At the very first start of the readings Shelly said "The kids all come in together" and that basically you might hear a lot of things that resonate with you child through out the reading and BOY WAS SHE RIGHT.  Our Grace sprinkled in ALL the readings (even some of the boys readings).  Specifically With Sabrina, Kate and then Carley.  I could go on and on about each similarity but I would be writing a whole book. So I will just give a few and then I will get to Grace's specific reading. 

First was Sabrina.  Shelly mentioned the water, beach, warm vacation.  We live in Indiana so VERY cold winter so our favorite vacations were florida.  Grace loved the Ocean. That she was late teens early 20's.  Grace was 22. That she died suddenly....Grace had too. That she was active and physically fit. That she excelled in Education.  Grace did and actually her College has created a Scholarship in her name. Then Shelly read for Lisa F, from her daughter Kate.  Kate and Grace have come through together before. They are very similar.  Both Blonde and they actually look a lot alike. Both worked at a Pool. Very accomplished and confident and excellent communicators. Shelly mentioned to Lisa about magnets and art work on their refrigerator which we have from Grace on ours.  Then she mentioned a smaller Christmas tree on a table and my husband had just put up a smaller christmas tree on a table in the living room instead of the usually very very large tree that we used to. Then Shelly read for a few boys and even in their reading there were things we could understand.  Then Shelly mentioned a girl in a blue princess dress and short cut bangs.That she was actually older but was showing her self younger.  Grace LOVED and had every princess dress ever made lol.   Irene then mentioned her beautiful Carley.  She also mentioned to Irene Globes or snowglobes and we also could understand that.  I used to collect snowglobes for Grace and my brother gave me a globe with a Angle sitting on the moon after Grace transitioned and we set one to every one of Graces friends. 

Then Shelly came to Phil and I.  She asked if anything before sounded like Grace and I said Absolutely! She said that Grace was sprinkling herself through a lot of the readings. She mention Dancing and or Cheerleading and our Grace did both.That she loved music.That she was light and joy in our lives and everyones. Shelly said we needed to begin to integrate more into life and I totally understood that because I have not been doing that. She mentioned to "Turn up the volume"  in perhaps our communication with her.  I didn't understand until the next day what Shelly meant. We used to play music around our house all the time.  She loved every kind of music.  From Frank Sinatra to Hip Hop.  The night after the reading I was crying watching tv in the backround.  It was a late night show and the band that came on was Howard Jones (someone I used to listen to all the time when I was younger.  The name of the song was "Things Can Only Get Better".  Then I knew what Shelly meant. Grace was telling her that our was for her to communicate right now is through music.  A thing we all loved and had incommon as a family. Shelly also mentioned something about Grace's head....like she had anxiety or something or stress.  And yes Grace had a very very busy life and was stressed about work and college and graduating and getting her dream job, which she did get. So that made a lot of sense too.  The last thing Shelly said was she saw us all in a big group hug.  And we were a very very close family.  Her Brother, Dad, Me and Grace.  I could actually see a huge group hug in my mind. 

Thank you so much to the wonderful Shelly Wilson and of course HPH and Elizabeth and Irene and all the wonderful parents that share their wonderful kids with us.