Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences April 2026
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by Elizabeth Boisson
Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
April 2026 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC
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To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s earthly body. (I use those words because your children didn't really die – just their earth-suit did. That's an extremely important and comforting distinction.) I’m glad you are learning how to optimally heal and transform despite this seemingly senseless tragedy. Six keys to doing that are to remember the following about your children . . .
1. Over 99.9% of who and what your child IS (not was) continues in the next phase of life. This is true no matter how they passed on and at what age. See the collective evidence for life after death in these articles:
#1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life
#60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death
#115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death
Their love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, and much more continue in the next phase of forever. We know this is true through scientific study of postmaterial (the so-called 'deceased') people and clinical data from near-death experiences, life between lives sessions, and evidential medium reports.
They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be the same. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that.
4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now. To learn more, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts. Then use the free Afterlife Contact Session audio program at Shop.
5. You can choose daily to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others. To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses and watch my videos at Greater Reality Healing.
6. You can heal yourself and create more meaning to your child's life by helping others. Also, consider the possibility that your and your child's souls / consciousness volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World.
After a child transitions from earth, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions. No one could or should ever judge you about that. However, many people have learned to regularly use the above keys to feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude. To learn more, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.
You can do the same. It’s not easy and it usually doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible via daily small steps using those keys and the following seven action steps . . .
- Attend online HPH meetings shown at Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups. (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)
- Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and more.
- Contact one or more Caring Listeners who talk with you at no charge. These volunteers are not trained therapists; they have been through 'the dark night of the soul' and will share worked for them, recommended resources, and more.
- Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com/Articles / Radio Shows / Shop)
- Watch Affiliate Leader / Caring Listen Interviews, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources
- Optimally heal, live, and help via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131). This program does NOT replace HPH; however, it does help you with other types of big changes and challenges that appear to be losses.
- Lean on others and ask for help when you need it. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others by sharing your greatest gifts and following your inner callings.
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Q: My beautiful only child passed on 1 1/2 year ago. I am so grateful to have found Helping Parents Heal and would like to learn how to have more signs and visits from him. How can I connect with him better? Thank you, Diane
A: Dear Diane, thank you sharing one of the most important questions a parent can ask. To better detect your beloved son, I suggest the following . . .
- Learn the Evidence that Proves Life Continues after Bodily Death
Scientific and clinical research now shows,without a doubt, that death is not the end of life. However, many people don't yet know the vast amount of data that proves this. Fear of death can result in fear, guilt, anger, hopelessness, and other lower-energy emotions. That makes it more difficult to perceive loved ones whose new Home is characterized by peace, joy, love, gratitude, and other higher-energy emotions.
Trying to contact loved ones now living in higher-energy realms when you are stuck in fear and misinformed beliefs is difficult. It's like trying to tune into radio station FM 109 when your dial is on AM 34. That's why it's wise to, moment by moment, consciously focus on more positive emotions. Part of that is to learn the evidence that proves death is not the end of life. For overviews of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence, see my book The Afterlife Evidence and articles . . .
#1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life
#60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death
#115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death
2. Use the many Helping Parents Heal Resources
Visit Shining Light Resources on the HelpingParentsHeal.org website under Resources to see a full list of what's available. I especially recommend using Caring Listeners and attending local groups and on-line classes. You don't have to learn all this by yourself; many parents stand ready to help as much and for as long as you need.
3. Learn from Shining Light Parents
I and Elizabeth Boisson interviewed 130 parents who are group leaders and/or Caring Listeners for Helping Parents Heal. They shared powerful ways to better detect signs and visits from their children who have changed worlds. Their words of wisdom will help you after 'the loss' of any dear one: spouse, close family member, dear friend, pet, or child. To learn how to do this, read chapter two in the Shining Light Parents Speak book and watch YouTube videos at Affiliate Leader and Caring Listener Interviews.
- Develop Different but Meaningful Relationships with Your 'Departed' Loved Ones
Your loved ones in the next phase of life want to continue being in your life. They enjoy being present at family gatherings and you talking to them when you feel called to do so. You can, especially with intention and practice, increasingly sense them while awake or asleep.
To increase the quality and quantity of meaningful visits, I recommend learning the information and using the audio programs listed above. Read articles #9 Visit with 'Departed' Loved Ones NOW, #28 Afterlife Contacts, and #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being . Then use my Afterlife Contact Technique to quiet your brain and allow your higher self to naturally see, hear, feel, and know their living presence.
To you and all parents, please feel free to email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have any big questions and/or tough challenges about this or any other topic.
BIG hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!
Mark
Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher. While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. He also has extensive post-graduate training in clinical nutrition.
Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project. He created and directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program (#131) that helps people do just that. To optimally heal, live, and help others – despite your current or past circumstances – read articles #72 Greater Reality LIVING Program, #82 Greater Reality HEALING Program, and #119 Greater Reality HELPING Program at SoulProof.com/Articles.
His mission is to help you know and show that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.
Note: While his schedule allows, he will email brief but information and resource-packed personalized recommendation to parents, siblings, and other close family members at no charge. Just email him at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges.
Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace traditional medical or psychological care. Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on 50+ years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health clinics. Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on his current understandings and firsthand experiences.