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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences August 2025

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences August 2025

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    • Jul
    • 31
    • 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
 August 2025  by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC



To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form.  (I use those terms because your daughter and/or son didn't really die even though their earth-suit did.  That's an extremely important distinction.)  I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy.  Six key understandings to making that shift come from deeply knowing / remembering that:

            1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on.  See the following articles at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.

    (Note: these and all articles referenced are available at SoulProof.com/Articles)

            2. Only their earthly body died: everything else about them continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more. 


  1. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that. 

                4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts.   Then use the free Afterlife Contact audio program at Shop. 
     
                5. You can choose – moment by moment and day by day – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses

                6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others.  Further, you and your child may have volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World. 

   

After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.   No one could or should ever judge that.  However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and seven action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)   

 

  1. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.

  2. Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge

 

  1. Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, e-books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com. (under articles / radio shows / shop)

 

  1. Watch interviews of Shining Light Parents, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources

 

  1. Positively transform via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131)

 

  1. Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others. 

 

*       *       *       *       *       *       *

 

Q: We lost our beautiful 19-year-old son to a fentanyl overdose last year.  I know it will be some time before we can communicate with him using SoulPhone technology.  How can we sense him better now?

 

A: I am sorry for all the pain and suffering that you and other family members have experienced.  However, I am glad that you are seeking to contact your son who is actually not lost even though it seems like it.  He is very much alive, well, near, and wants to continue to be part of your loving family.  Here's a six-part path that I recommend . . . 

 

  1. Learn the evidence that life continues after bodily death 

Afterlife researchers now know, without a doubt, that death is not the end of life.  However, many people don't yet know the vast amount of data that scientifically proves this.  This can result in unnecessary self-blame, fear, loneliness, and other lower-energy emotions and ways of being.  And that, in turn, makes it more difficult to perceive postmaterial persons whose new abode is characterized by higher-energy emotions of peace, joy, love, gratitude, and more.  

 

The following articles provide brief and easy-to-read overviews of the scientific, clinical, and firsthand experience evidence.  Knowing this evidence will decrease any fears about death being the end of life.  (see point #5 below)

#1  Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life

 

#60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death

 

#115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death

 


  1. Internalize the great news that life and love are forever

Old wounds, needless fears, and fear-based religious teachings can block you from deeply knowing the truth of #1 above.  How to best eliminate those depends on a number of factors.  The book Greater Reality Living by me and Gary E. Schwartz PhD devotes a long chapter to this vital topic.  

As described in article #70, my Holistic Breathing Technique is a safe and powerful way to release all three causes of blocks listed above.  

 

In addition, see the following articles . . . 

 

#16 Evidence-Based Spiritual Teachings

 

#19 ‘The Great News’

 

#49 When You Have Been Abused

 

#100 Enlightenment

 


  1. Fine-Tune Yourself Holistically 

Sensing those who have graduated from earth-school involves, in part, expanding your senses.  Mediums practice doing this to develop their clear seeing, hearing, feeling, and knowing abilities.  Getting and staying well is a big topic since each person has unique needs for their body, brain, and consciousness.  A great start is to read my book Radiant Wellness.  Another is to use my Ask Your Soul, G.O.D., and Angels technique to access your and their wisdom and guidance about all aspects of your life.  

 

Recommended articles for enjoying optimal wellness include . . .  

 

#12 Holistically Fine Tuning Yourself

 

#32 Nutrition-Based Healing

 

#87 Natural Health Care

 

#88 Whole Food Way of Eating and Supplements

 


  1. Develop a Different but Very Real Relationship

The collective evidence strongly indicates that your loved ones, people and pets, want to continue being in your life.  They enjoy being present at family gatherings and you talking with them when you feel called to do so.  You may sense them during spontaneous after death communications while waking or sleeping.  You can increase the probability of meaningful visits by using steps outlined in article #9 and using my Afterlife Contact Technique (free at Shop) Article #82 describes how you can shift from primarily identifying yourself as 'a bereaved person'.

 

#9 Visiting ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now

 

#28 Afterlife Contacts

#82 Greater Reality HEALING


  1. Get On a Similar Wavelength

Your son is now in a realm characterized by peace, joy, love, gratitude, and other higher-energy emotions.  It's difficult for you to sense his living presence if you are feeling a lot of sadness, pain, guilt, anger, and other lower-energy emotions.  That's why, moment by moment, you need to consciously choose to focus on more positive emotions.  Two ways to do that include: 

 

  1. Read article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being 

 

  1. Use the A.R.T. Technique(Acceptance, Realization, and Transformation) audio product that uses deep relaxation and guided imagery.

 

 

  1. Consult an Evidential Medium

If you want to use this service, see article #6 Evidential Mediums to learn more and see a list of ones I recommend.  Also see the list of Providers on the HPH website.

 

I encourage you to take action steps so you increasingly detect your postmaterial loved one's presence.  Over time, you can develop a 'new normal' relationship with them that can be very meaningful and comforting.  You can learn more about this by watching interviews I've done with parents with children who have passed on.  These 'shining light' parents describe how they sense their kid's signals.  Their wise and loving input is invaluable for anyone who is grieving the passing of a spouse, parent, sibling, friend, pet, or other loved one.  To watch the YouTube videos, click here: Affiliate Leader and Caring Listener Interviews.   

 

After incrementally learning and applying the above, you should perceive your son's presence much more clearly.  To you and all parents, email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have additional questions and/or challenges.  

 

BIG hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!

Mark


Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to parents, siblings, and other close family members at no charge.  Just email me at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you.   

 

Note #2: My audio programs, e-books, audio books, documentary film, articles, radio shows, and newsletters are all FREE.  This evidence-based information and holistic resources can help every aspect of your life.  Please use them, share, and help others as you feel called.   

 

Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.  

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. 

Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project.  He created and directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program (#131) that provides evidence-based information and holistic resources to help people do just that.  These lofty goals are now possible for most people thanks to the hope, inspiration, and empowerment from The Great News About the Nature of Reality (#19) and Eight Developments for Widespread Conscious Living Now (#125).  To learn more, see Greater Reality LIVING Program (#72), Greater Reality HEALING Program (#82) and Greater Reality HELPING Program (#119). 

His mission is to help you know and show – no matter what is happening to you or around you – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.  Visit SoulProof.com for his FREE books, audio programs, documentary film, articles, radio shows, and newsletters. 

 

 

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