Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences - December, 2026!
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by Elizabeth Boisson
Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
December 2026 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC
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To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s earthly body. (I use those words because your children didn't really die – just their earth-suit did. That's an extremely important and comforting distinction.) I’m glad you are learning how to optimally heal and transform despite this seemingly senseless tragedy. Six keys to doing that are to remember the following about your children . . .
1. Over 99.9% of who and what your child IS (not was) continues in the next phase of life. This is true no matter how they passed on and at what age. See the collective evidence for life after death in these articles:
#1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life
#60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death
#115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death
Their love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, and much more continue in the next phase of forever. We know this is true through scientific study of postmaterial (the so-called 'deceased') people and clinical data from near-death experiences, life between lives sessions, and evidential medium reports.
3. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be the same. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that.
4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now. To learn more, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts. Then use the free Afterlife Contact Session audio program at Shop.
5. You can choose daily to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others. To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses and watch my videos at Greater Reality Healing.
6. You can heal yourself and create more meaning to your child's life by helping others. Also, consider the possibility that your and your child's souls / consciousness volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World.
After a child transitions from earth, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions. No one could or should ever judge you about that. However, many people have learned to regularly use the above keys to feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude. To learn more, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.
You can do the same. It’s not easy and it usually doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible via daily small steps using those keys and the following seven action steps . . .
- Attend online HPH meetings shown at Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups. (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)
- Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and more.
- Contact one or more Caring Listeners who talk with you at no charge. These volunteers are not trained therapists; they have been through 'the dark night of the soul' and will share worked for them, recommended resources, and more.
- Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com/Articles / Radio Shows / Shop)
- Watch Affiliate Leader / Caring Listen Interviews, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources
- Optimally heal, live, and help via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131). This program does NOT replace HPH; however, it does help you with other types of big changes and challenges that appear to be losses.
- Lean on others and ask for help when you need it. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others by sharing your greatest gifts and following your inner callings.
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Q: One month before my daughter was diagnosed with brain cancer, a book was left on my doorstep. I didn't know where it came from and had my hand on the garbage can to throw it away. For some reason, I decided to read it and then re-read it 9 times! 'Dying To Be Me' by Anita Moorjani opened me to a new world about the afterlife, near death experiences, mediums, and more. I feel it was Divine intervention to help me through the transition of our daughter. I was getting signs from her for about a year but lately not so much. Why might this be?
A: What a great example of how God / angels / Life Itself helps us through tough times. That is a mini-miracle that helped you and can help others who learn about it. I hope that you continue to regard it as a sacred sign that can energize you over time.
Experiencing fewer visits / signs from your 'departed' child is fairly common and can be due to:
- She knows you're doing better so she can focus more on helping others, learning, having fun, exploring her new abode, and more.
- You may need to work on being a better receiver so she doesn't have to use so much of her energy to transmit. (To do this, release lower energy emotions via my Holistic Breathing audio program (article #70 Holistic Breathing Technique. Also read article #108 Higher Energy Emotions and Ways of Being)
- As a probable soulmate of yours, she may know that you need to reach down more deeply and learn for yourself versus being dependent on her signs. (To learn more, read article #121 Soulmates. After 1 month of doing breathwork, read article #71 and use my Ask Your Soul, Angels, and The Light audio program.
I facilitate a group Afterlife Contact class for HPH members on the 4th Monday of each month at 8pm Eastern. Use the Zoom meeting #329 383 1916 or the link on Helping Parents Heal Facebook account. I invite you to join us and share your experiences, or lack thereof, and ask questions afterwards.
To you and all parents, put this to use and let me know how you're doing in 60 days. HPH has a marvelous team to help you heal, then find, benefit from, and share silver linings. Email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have any questions and/or challenges you would help with.
Hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!
Mark
Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher. While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. He also has extensive post-graduate training in clinical nutrition.
Mark is an honorary board member for HPH and has helped the organization help parents since 2014. Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project and an honorary board member for HPH. He directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program that helps people do just that. His mission is to help you know and show that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.
Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace traditional medical or psychological care. Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on 50+ years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health clinics. Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on his current understandings and firsthand experiences.