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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences January 2026

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences January 2026

  • Posted
    • Dec
    • 6
    • 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
 January 2026  by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC

 

(Note: FREE articles at SoulProof.com/Articles; FREE books, audio programs, documentary film, and videos at SoulProof.com/Shop)

To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s earthly body.  (I use those words because your children didn't really die – just their earth-suit did.  That's an extremely important and comforting distinction.)  I’m glad you are learning how to optimally heal and transform despite this seemingly senseless tragedy.  Six keys to doing that are to remember the following about your children . . .
 
            1. Over 99.9% of who and what your child IS (not was) continues in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on and at what age.  See the collective evidence for life after death in these articles:

            #1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life
 

            #60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death
 

            #115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death


  1. Their love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, and much more continue in the next phase of forever. We know this is true through scientific study of postmaterial (the so-called 'deceased') people and clinical data from near-death experiences, life between lives sessions, and evidential medium reports. 

  2. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be the same.  Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that. 

                4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts.   Then use the free Afterlife Contact Session audio program at Shop. 
     
                5. You can choose daily to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses and watch my videos at Greater Reality Healing. 

                6. You can heal yourself and create more meaning to your child's life by helping others.  Also, consider the possibility that your and your child's souls / consciousness volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World. 

   

After a child transitions from earth, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.  No one could or should ever judge you about that.  However, many people have learned to regularly use the above keys to feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it usually doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible via daily small steps using those keys and the following seven action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings shown at Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)   

 

  1. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and more.

  2. Contact one or more Caring Listeners who talk with you at no charge. These volunteers are not trained therapists; they have been through 'the dark night of the soul' and will share worked for them, recommended resources, and more.    

 

  1. Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com/Articles / Radio Shows / Shop)

 

  1. Watch Affiliate Leader / Caring Listen Interviews, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources

 

  1. Optimally heal, live, and help via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131). This program does NOT replace HPH; however, it does help you with other types of big changes and challenges that appear to be losses. 

 

  1. Lean on others and ask for help when you need it. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others by sharing your greatest gifts and following your inner callings. 

 

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Q: I had a miscarriage when I was three months pregnant.  Our church teaches that baptism is required for a soul to be saved and go to heaven.  Is that really true?  Will our baby go to purgatory or hell?  Our baby wasn't old enough to be baptized so how would that be fair? 

 

A: I am very sorry that you had to suffer needlessly.  What kind of so-called minister would say such a thing?  (The answer: someone who was taught that but hasn't thought through how an intelligent and loving Source would operate.)  The Creator and Sustainer of the Cosmos is not so unimaginative or cruel to design a system like that.  Of course the soul of your baby went to Heaven / Home / The Really Real Place.  More accurately, he / she never left for two reasons:

 

  1. Only part of his / her totality of energy, if that, was needed to visit the developing baby. The rest, perhaps over 75%, never left Home; the other 25% returned to Heaven after the developing body died.  To learn about this, see article #98 Life Between Lives.

 

  1. Clinical evidence – primarily from the fields of Near-Death Experiences and Life Between Lives – indicates the soul usually doesn't fully connect with the developing fetus until just before or at the time of birth. Why would an evolved consciousness want part of its energy to be limited to a dark and quiet place for nine or even three months?  The soul may visit the fetus periodically to begin the process of merging the developing brain-based consciousness with the eternal transcendent source of consciousness.  But that doesn't require a full-time residency in the womb.

 

In addition, big details in an earthly experience are usually considered beforehand in the place of pre-birth planning.  Data from these clinical fields indicate that the soul involved knows ahead of time that the earthly body may not fully form.  This information releases pressure on parents since the involved soul wasn't harmed or hindered in any way.  To learn more, see article #25 Pre-Birth Planning: Did I REALLY Choose All This?

More accurate synonyms for 'soul' are so important to realize when church teachings are wrong.  The terms consciousness, energy, and life-force all describe indestructible aspects of life.  A soul is an eternal, infinite, beloved, and integral part of The Light.  Does energy have to be blessed by a preacher or priest to survive after bodily death?  Of course not . . . energy is energy.  Does eternal consciousness have to 'be saved' in order to continue?  No, since consciousness is primary, that is, a basic part of reality that expresses itself in different ways. 

As for fears that your baby will go to hell, what kind of horrific 'God' would even imagine that?  To learn more about this important topic, see article #13 What is G.O.D. Like? and #14 Heaven and Hell . . . What Are They Really?

 

I encourage you to find a different church that supports people who are going through the toughest of the tough challenges instead of spouting ridiculously ignorant dogma.  I also hope you listen to your wise inner voice – your soul's discernment – about how a loving, creative, and intelligent Source would operate.  Finally, I suggest building a personal relationship with your spiritual support team: your angels, guides, master teachers, and The Light.  For more information about this, see articles #20 Discerning Your Inner Wisdom and #71 Ask Your Soul, Angels, and The Light.

 

See article #139 Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Abortion: Resources and Answers to Commonly Asked Questions for expanded answers to your question and more. 

 

To you and all parents, please feel free to email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have any big questions and/or tough challenges about this or any other topic.  

 

BIG hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!

Mark

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education.  He also has extensive post-graduate training in clinical nutrition. 

Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project.  He created and directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program (#131) that helps people do just that.  These lofty goals are now possible for most people thanks to the hope, inspiration, and empowerment from The Great News About the Nature of Reality (#19) and Eight Developments for Widespread Conscious Living Now (#125).  To learn more, see Greater Reality LIVING Program (#72), Greater Reality HEALING Program (#82) and Greater Reality HELPING Program (#119). 

His mission is to help you know and show – no matter your current or past circumstances – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.


Note: While his schedule allows, he will email brief but information and resource-packed personalized recommendation to parents, siblings, and other close family members at no charge.  Just email him at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges.   

 

Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace traditional medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on 50+ years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health clinics.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on his current understandings and firsthand experiences.  

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