

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences June 2025
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by Elizabeth Boisson
Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
May 2025 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC
To all family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form. (Your daughter and/or son didn't really die even though their earth-suit did. That's an extremely important distinction.) I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy. Six key understandings to making that shift are:
1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life. This is true no matter how they passed on. See the following articles at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.
- #1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life
- #60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death
- #115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death
(Note: these and all articles referenced are free at SoulProof.com/Articles)
2. Only their earthly body died: everything else about them continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more.
They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that.
4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now. To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts. Then use the free Afterlife Contact audio program at Shop.
5. You can choose – moment by moment – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others. To learn how, see article #82 Journey from Deeply Grieving to Brightly Shining
6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others. Further, you and your child may have volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 11 Keys to Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World.
After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions. No one could or should ever judge that. However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude. To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.
You can do the same. It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and six action steps . . .
- Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups. (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider staring one.)
- Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.
- Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge
- Read free articles and listen to free Radio Shows at SoulProof.com. Then take relevant action steps
- Use my free audio programs at SoulProof.com/Shop.
- Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others.
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Q: I have heard you say the souls of children who pass on are advanced souls who didn’t need to be on earth for a long time. I want to believe that is true, but what are you basing that statement on?
A: Kudos for wanting evidence-based answers to life’s biggest questions. I hope I said that children ‘might be’ or ‘are likely’ more advanced souls. Those who are deeply grieving may not understand that earthly appearances can be deceiving: a little one who SEEMS to be a helpless victim is actually an eternal and powerful soul / being of energy. That’s why knowing the nine categories of collective evidence behind my answer is important. I can't share all that in this Q & A format but you can read it in article #127 Might Children Who Pass On Be More Evolved Souls?
One of the most beautiful topics was 'Attributes of Children Who Changed Worlds'. While working with Helping Parents Heal (HPH) for over 11 years, I’ve interviewed many parents who described their children very similarly. The eyes of their children who later passed were different – like those of an old soul who could see through you. These young ones had an urgency to pack in experiences as if they knew, on some level, that they wouldn’t be on earth for long.
These children often had unusually high levels of compassion and love for people, pets and nature. Very popular kids – handsome captains of the football team and beautiful cheerleaders – were also friends with slow learners, ‘geeks’, and unpopular students. Often, parents weren’t aware of all this until the memorial service when they heard from people whose lives were touched by their child.
Based on all the evidence gathered during my 50-year search for meaning after working with dying children, I concluded it’s quite likely that children who pass on are more advanced souls. This is a very important point for parents to consider. From a near-sighted human perspective, the bodily death of a child appears to be a hopeless tragedy and proof of a cruel and chaotic world. However, from a more expansive view of life, bodily death at any age is revealed to be simply a ticket back Home.
To you and all parents and family members, read article #127 Might Children Who Pass On Be More Evolved Souls? and let me know if you have any questions.
Big hugs, love, and blessings,
Mark
Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to parents, siblings, and other close family members at no charge. Just email me at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you.
Note #2: My audio programs, e-books, audio books, documentary film, articles, and radio shows are all FREE. This evidence-based information and holistic resources can help every aspect of your life. Please use them, share, and help others when you are able to do so.
Disclaimer: This information is not designed to replace medical or psychological care. Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice. Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.
Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, masters level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher. While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education.
Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project, and assists research for the Laboratory for Advances in Consciousness and Health. He created four programs with evidence-based information, holistic resources, 'The Great News', and The 8 Developments that enable personal and planetary transformation. The programs include:
Greater Reality LIVING Program (article #72)
Greater Reality HEALING Program (article #82)
Greater Reality HELPING Program (article #119)
Greater Reality SHARING Program (article #122)
His mission is to help you know and show – no matter what is happening to you or around you – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever. Visit SoulProof.com for his FREE books, audio programs, documentary film, articles, radio shows, and newsletters.
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