Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences June 2026
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by Elizabeth Boisson
Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
June 2026 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC
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To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s earthly body. (I use those words because your children didn't really die – just their earth-suit did. That's an extremely important and comforting distinction.) I’m glad you are learning how to optimally heal and transform despite this seemingly senseless tragedy. Six keys to doing that are to remember the following about your children . . .
1. Over 99.9% of who and what your child IS (not was) continues in the next phase of life. This is true no matter how they passed on and at what age. See the collective evidence for life after death in these articles:
#1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life
#60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death
#115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death
Their love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, and much more continue in the next phase of forever. We know this is true through scientific study of postmaterial (the so-called 'deceased') people and clinical data from near-death experiences, life between lives sessions, and evidential medium reports.
3. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be the same. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that.
4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now. To learn more, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts. Then use the free Afterlife Contact Session audio program at Shop.
5. You can choose daily to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others. To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses and watch my videos at Greater Reality Healing.
6. You can heal yourself and create more meaning to your child's life by helping others. Also, consider the possibility that your and your child's souls / consciousness volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World.
After a child transitions from earth, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions. No one could or should ever judge you about that. However, many people have learned to regularly use the above keys to feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude. To learn more, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.
You can do the same. It’s not easy and it usually doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible via daily small steps using those keys and the following seven action steps . . .
- Attend online HPH meetings shown at Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups. (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)
- Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and more.
- Contact one or more Caring Listeners who talk with you at no charge. These volunteers are not trained therapists; they have been through 'the dark night of the soul' and will share worked for them, recommended resources, and more.
- Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com/Articles / Radio Shows / Shop)
- Watch Affiliate Leader / Caring Listen Interviews, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources
- Optimally heal, live, and help via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131). This program does NOT replace HPH; however, it does help you with other types of big changes and challenges that appear to be losses.
- Lean on others and ask for help when you need it. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others by sharing your greatest gifts and following your inner callings.
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Q: I lost my only child Georgia, age 14, last year on Mother’s. She was at a sleepover with her friends and unfortunately choked to death. I cannot get out of my mind that, just before the police knocked at our door, I had a dream that she was screaming for me with fire all around her. I’m 90% sure that’s she’s with me, but I’m so worried that she’s not OK. She was lucky enough not to lose anyone in her life as all her grandparents, etc. are still here. I’d really appreciate it if you could provide some answers as to what the fire and distress meant. The past year has nearly wiped me out and I’m hanging on as much as I can.
A: Dear Gina,
I am very sorry for all the pain and suffering you've gone through. Of course that would haunt you. Even though none of her current family members have crossed over, she had plenty of dear ones to welcome her back Home. It's super important to remember that – even though she was only 14 years old in earth years – she really is an eternal, wise, powerful, and beautiful soul. She is surrounded by angels, guides, soul mates, and others she has known for longer than we can imagine
Here are my recommendations for healing and positively transforming:
- Know that your 'fire and screaming' dream was, quite likely, due to your precognitive knowing about her passing and your brain's attempt to make sense of it. See article #126 Can the Soul Exit the Body Before Severe Suffering and Death? (at SoulProof.com/Articles) to learn the evidence that the consciousness / soul can disengage beforehand.
Put another way, you likely sensed – since soulmates and moms have such deep connections – what her body was going through. The 'fire and screaming' was your understandable reaction, not Georgia's reality. (Keep in mind that 'her body' is much less than 1% of who and what she really is. Her no-longer-needed body choked and died, but the other 99.9% of her was watching it impassively but with love from above. - Read my book 'The Afterlife Evidence' (free under Shop) to learn the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence that no one really dies.
- To learn that this seeming tragedy may involve timing and meaning, see articles #2 When a Child Changes Worlds, #127 Might Children Who Pass On Be More Evolved Souls?, and #140 Is There ‘A Time’ to Pass On?
- Benefit from the many free Helping Parents Heal resources at Shining Light Resources and work with a Caring Listener.
- After reading article #70 Holistic Breathing Technique, use that audio program (free at Shop) to release your deep pain, guilt, anger, and fear-based beliefs.
Let's start with this and see how you're doing in 60 days. Please do not hesitate to share any questions or concerns.
Let me know if you have any other questions or concerns after using the above approaches for 60 days. To you, and all parents, please feel free to email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have any big questions and/or tough challenges about this or any other topic.
BIG hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!
Mark
Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher. While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. He also has extensive post-graduate training in clinical nutrition.
Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project and an honorary board member for HPH. He created and directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program that helps people do just that. His mission is to help you know and show that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.
Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace traditional medical or psychological care. Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on 50+ years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health clinics. Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on his current understandings and firsthand experiences.