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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences November 2025

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences November 2025

  • Posted
    • Oct
    • 22
    • 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
 November 2025  by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC



To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form.  (I use those terms because your daughter and/or son didn't really die even though their earth-suit did.  That's an extremely important distinction.)  I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy.  Six key understandings to making that shift come from deeply knowing / remembering that:

            1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on.  See the following articles at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.

    (Note: these and all articles referenced are available at SoulProof.com/Articles)

            2. Only their earthly body died: everything else about them continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more. 


  1. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that. 

                4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts.   Then use the free Afterlife Contact audio program at Shop. 
     
                5. You can choose – day by day – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses

                6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others.  Further, you and your child may have volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World. 

   

After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.   No one could or should ever judge that.  However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and seven action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)   

 

  1. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.

  2. Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge

 

  1. Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, e-books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com. (under articles / radio shows / shop)

 

  1. Watch interviews of Shining Light Parents, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources

 

  1. Positively transform via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131)

 

  1. Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others. 

 

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Q: I feel so much guilt since our son passed on and think I should have done more to prevent it.   I need to forgive myself and focus more on our good times together.  Can you recommend anything to work on guilt? 

 

A: Guilt is one the toughest emotions parents commonly struggle with so you're not alone on this one.  Guilt can be part of the 'bargaining' stage of Kubler-Ross's five stages of grief model.  The unconscious thinking behind that can be: 'If I feel guilty and punish myself enough, maybe God / Life will change its mind and reverse what happened.'  As you are learning, that's not the way things work and holding onto guilt can exhaust you. 

 

Here's what I recommend to begin optimal healing and transformation:

 

  1. Attend HPH meetings that are held nearly every weekday evening. To meet other kindred spirits, hear discussions, and ask questions, visit Calendar.

 

  1. Work with a Caring Listener who, at no charge, will talk with you and work to help you get through your guilt-ridden 'dark night of the soul'. They are no trained psychotherapists; they are shining light parents who will listen, share what worked for them, and suggest resources. Caring Listeners

 

  1. Use The Holistic Breathing Technique audio program (free at Shop) after reading article #70 at SoulProof.com. This approach helps you release guilt and other lower-energy emotions.  (To learn more, read article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.)

 

  1. Use the Love, Acceptance, and Forgiveness Technique as described in article #40. Kudos for recognizing the importance of forgiving yourself; this audio program helps you do that using deep relaxation and guided imagery.

 

  1. Use the Appreciation, Realization, and Transformation Techniqueaudio program as described in article #41. Once again, bravo for realizing the importance of remembering all the wonderful times you had together.  That's the 'appreciation' part of this technique that also helps you realize that you'll see each other again.  Finally, you can begin transforming positively by finding, benefiting from, and sharing the silver linings.   

 

  1. Serve others to help them, you, and create more meaning to your child's passing. To identify how to do that using your soul's greatest gifts, read article #21 and use the Identify and Fulfill Your Soul's Missions audio program.

 

Let's start with that.  Let me know how you're doing in 60 days and we'll go from there.


To you and all parents, feel free to email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have additional questions and/or challenges.  

 

BIG hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!

Mark


Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to parents, siblings, and other close family members at no charge.  Just email me at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you.   

 

Note #2: My audio programs, e-books, audio books, documentary film, articles, radio shows, and newsletters are all FREE.  This evidence-based information and holistic resources can help every aspect of your life.  Please use them, share, and help others as you feel called.   

 

Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.  

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. 

Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project.  He created and directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program (#131) that provides evidence-based information and holistic resources to help people do just that.  These lofty goals are now possible for most people thanks to the hope, inspiration, and empowerment from The Great News About the Nature of Reality (#19) and Eight Developments for Widespread Conscious Living Now (#125).  To learn more, see Greater Reality LIVING Program (#72), Greater Reality HEALING Program (#82) and Greater Reality HELPING Program (#119). 

His mission is to help you know and show – no matter your current or past circumstances – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.  Visit SoulProof.com for his FREE books, audio programs, documentary film, articles, radio shows, and newsletters. 

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