Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences - November, 2026!
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by Elizabeth Boisson
Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
November 2026 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC
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To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s earthly body. (I use those words because your children didn't really die – just their earth-suit did. That's an extremely important and comforting distinction.) I’m glad you are learning how to optimally heal and transform despite this seemingly senseless tragedy. Six keys to doing that are to remember the following about your children . . .
1. Over 99.9% of who and what your child IS (not was) continues in the next phase of life. This is true no matter how they passed on and at what age. See the collective evidence for life after death in these articles:
#1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life
#60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death
#115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death
Their love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, and much more continue in the next phase of forever. We know this is true through scientific study of postmaterial (the so-called 'deceased') people and clinical data from near-death experiences, life between lives sessions, and evidential medium reports.
3. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be the same. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that.
4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now. To learn more, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts. Then use the free Afterlife Contact Session audio program at Shop.
5. You can choose daily to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others. To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses and watch my videos at Greater Reality Healing.
6. You can heal yourself and create more meaning to your child's life by helping others. Also, consider the possibility that your and your child's souls / consciousness volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World.
After a child transitions from earth, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions. No one could or should ever judge you about that. However, many people have learned to regularly use the above keys to feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude. To learn more, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.
You can do the same. It’s not easy and it usually doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible via daily small steps using those keys and the following seven action steps . . .
- Attend online HPH meetings shown at Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups. (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)
- Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and more.
- Contact one or more Caring Listeners who talk with you at no charge. These volunteers are not trained therapists; they have been through 'the dark night of the soul' and will share worked for them, recommended resources, and more.
- Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com/Articles / Radio Shows / Shop)
- Watch Affiliate Leader / Caring Listen Interviews, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources
- Optimally heal, live, and help via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131). This program does NOT replace HPH; however, it does help you with other types of big changes and challenges that appear to be losses.
- Lean on others and ask for help when you need it. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others by sharing your greatest gifts and following your inner callings.
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Q: Two years after our son passed on and we are still feeling very deep grief. How can we lighten that and remember he is alive and near?
A: Kudos for asking such an important question! Two years isn't that long given the many changes and impacts after a child changes worlds. However, the intensity and duration of deep grief can often be lightened. Here are 4 ways to do that . . .
1. Shiome Healing Sessions
This technique was developed by Judith Hancox who holds multiple degrees and post-grad training in social work, counseling, and grief recovery. (She is also the sister of HPH vice-president Irene Vouvalides.)
There are four parts to the healing process: (1) creating a safe, sacred space for healing through the energy correcting meditation and a sacred circle that holds traumatic memories, (2) desensitizing disturbing memories by focusing on positive thoughts using the Flash Technique, (3) supporting the desensitization process through Evolving Thought Field Therapy techniques, and (4) transforming disturbing thoughts to peaceful thoughts through the ‘Shiome Shift’ of the sacred Circle.
Sessions are held on the second Monday of every month during September through May; pre-registration is required. To learn more, visit Judith's website Shiome.com and email Judi at Judith.hph@gmail.com or our registrar Joyce McLaughlin at tennfarm@comcast.net
- Take advantage of the many resources in HPH
There is so much to choose from. I especially recommend working with a Caring Listener (a free service provided by Shining Light Parents), attending in-person and online classes (see Calendar), and Affiliate Leader / Caring Listener Interviews on YouTube.
3. Use the Holistic Breathing Technique
This powerful approach releases deep pain, sadness, and fear-based beliefs about life, death, and afterlife. After 54 years of helping many tens of thousands of people, this is one of my favorite tools for assisting profound change. To learn more, read article #70 Holistic Breathing Technique at SoulProof.com/Articles. If you feel called to do so, use the audio program that's free under /Shop. - Enjoy more signs and visits from you child
These have helped many parents make a turnaround from deeply grieving much of the time to realizing their children are alive, well, and happy . . . and want their parents to be the same way. To learn how to increase the quality and quantity of these visits, I recommend:
a. Read Chapter 2 in the Shining Light Parents Speak book (e-book and audio book free at SoulProof.com/Shop)
b. Read article #28 Afterlife Contacts and #9 Visit with Your 'Departed' Loved Ones Now - When you feel ready, use the Afterlife Contact audio program (free at /Shop). I'll facilitate a session for HPH on the 4th Monday of each month at 8pm Eastern using Zoom meeting # 329 383 1916.
To you and all parents, put this to use and let me know how you're doing in 60 days. HPH has a marvelous team to help you heal, then find, benefit from, and share the silver linings. Email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have any questions and/or challenges you would like assistance with.
Hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!
Mark
Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher. While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. He also has extensive post-graduate training in clinical nutrition.
Mark is an honorary board member for HPH and has helped the organization help parents since 2014. Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project and an honorary board member for HPH. He directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program that helps people do just that. His mission is to help you know and show that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.
Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace traditional medical or psychological care. Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on 50+ years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health clinics. Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on his current understandings and firsthand experiences.