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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences October 2025

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences October 2025

  • Posted
    • Sep
    • 25
    • 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
 October 2025  by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC



To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form.  (I use those terms because your daughter and/or son didn't really die even though their earth-suit did.  That's an extremely important distinction.)  I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy.  Six key understandings to making that shift come from deeply knowing / remembering that:

            1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on.  See the following articles at SoulProof.com for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.

    (Note: these and all articles referenced are available at SoulProof.com/Articles)

            2. Only their earthly body died: everything else about them continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more. 


  1. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that. 

                4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts.   Then use the free Afterlife Contact audio program at Shop. 
     
                5. You can choose – day by day – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses

                6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others.  Further, you and your child may have volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World. 

   

After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.   No one could or should ever judge that.  However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and seven action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)   

 

  1. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.

  2. Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge

 

  1. Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, e-books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com. (under articles / radio shows / shop)

 

  1. Watch interviews of Shining Light Parents, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources

 

  1. Positively transform via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131)

 

  1. Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others. 

 

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Q: My 20-year-old son passed on two months ago by suicide.  I'm looking for all the meaning I can find from his struggle and our circumstances.  I also want to use this to help others.  Given how he transitioned from earth, can I still contact him via your Afterlife Contact Session?

 

A: Kudos for wanting to find meaning and silver linings and share them with others.  That's a huge positive shift, especially so early in your recovery journey.  I'm sure your son is cheering you on.  To achieve your commendable goals, you'll first need to heal yourself and reset.  My recommendations to do that include . . . 

 

  1. Take time to grieve and regain your balance. To help with that: 

 

  1. read article #135 Help for Those Who Passed On by Suicide (at SoulProof.com/Articles) 

 

  1. cover the self-care bases discussed in article #12 Optimal Self Care

 

  1. after reading article #70, use the Holistic Breathing Technique to release deep sadness and pain, and gain more clarity and empowerment

 

  1. read article #82 and watch videos atGreater Reality HEALING Program

 

  1. attend HPH meetings to continue your recovery 

 

  1. When you feel you are doing well – and close family and friends agree – use the following to identify your greatest gifts, and how to share them and create more meaning. 

 

  1. read article #21 Identify and Fulfill Your Highest Purposes, then use that audio program 

 

  1. read article #71 Ask Your Soul, Angels, and The Light, then use that audio program 

 

These resources will help find, benefit from, and share the silver linings that accompany adversity.   

 

Regarding your question about contacting him with the Afterlife Contact Technique, he may not be immediately available if he needs to go through a period of healing showers, rest, and rehab.  Otherwise, those who returned Home via suicide have been as accessible as anyone who changed worlds via illness, accident, murder, or other causes. 

 

Let's start with this.  Let me know how you're doing in 60 days and we'll go from there.


To you and all parents, feel free to email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have additional questions and/or challenges.  

 

BIG hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!

Mark


Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to parents, siblings, and other close family members at no charge.  Just email me at mark@soulproof.com with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you.   

 

Note #2: My audio programs, e-books, audio books, documentary film, articles, radio shows, and newsletters are all FREE.  This evidence-based information and holistic resources can help every aspect of your life.  Please use them, share, and help others as you feel called.   

 

Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.  

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. 

Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project.  He created and directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program (#131) that provides evidence-based information and holistic resources to help people do just that.  These lofty goals are now possible for most people thanks to the hope, inspiration, and empowerment from The Great News About the Nature of Reality (#19) and Eight Developments for Widespread Conscious Living Now (#125).  To learn more, see Greater Reality LIVING Program (#72), Greater Reality HEALING Program (#82) and Greater Reality HELPING Program (#119). 

His mission is to help you know and show – no matter your current or past circumstances – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.  Visit SoulProof.com for his FREE books, audio programs, documentary film, articles, radio shows, and newsletters. 

 

 

 

 

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