Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences - October, 2026!
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by Elizabeth Boisson
Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
October 2026 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC
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To all parents and family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s earthly body. (I use those words because your children didn't really die – just their earth-suit did. That's an extremely important and comforting distinction.) I’m glad you are learning how to optimally heal and transform despite this seemingly senseless tragedy. Six keys to doing that are to remember the following about your children . . .
1. Over 99.9% of who and what your child IS (not was) continues in the next phase of life. This is true no matter how they passed on and at what age. See the collective evidence for life after death in these articles:
#1 Scientific Evidence That Bodily Death Is NOT the End of Life
#60 Clinical Evidence That Life Continues After Physical Death
#115 Firsthand Experience Evidence for Life After Death
Their love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, and much more continue in the next phase of forever. We know this is true through scientific study of postmaterial (the so-called 'deceased') people and clinical data from near-death experiences, life between lives sessions, and evidential medium reports.
3. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be the same. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds to learn how you can do that.
4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now. To learn more, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now and #28 Afterlife Contacts. Then use the free Afterlife Contact Session audio program at Shop.
5. You can choose daily to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others. To learn how, see article #82 Greater Reality Healing: A Higher-Energy Path After Big Changes / Losses and watch my videos at Greater Reality Healing.
6. You can heal yourself and create more meaning to your child's life by helping others. Also, consider the possibility that your and your child's souls / consciousness volunteered to take part in a meta-plan as described in article #119 Helping Yourself, Others, and Our World.
After a child transitions from earth, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions. No one could or should ever judge you about that. However, many people have learned to regularly use the above keys to feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude. To learn more, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.
You can do the same. It’s not easy and it usually doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible via daily small steps using those keys and the following seven action steps . . .
- Attend online HPH meetings shown at Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups. (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider starting one.)
- Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and more.
- Contact one or more Caring Listeners who talk with you at no charge. These volunteers are not trained therapists; they have been through 'the dark night of the soul' and will share worked for them, recommended resources, and more.
- Benefit from my FREE articles, radio shows, newsletters, books, audio programs, and documentary film at SoulProof.com/Articles / Radio Shows / Shop)
- Watch Affiliate Leader / Caring Listen Interviews, read the Shining Light Parents Speak book, and benefit from other HPH Shining Light Resources
- Optimally heal, live, and help via the Greater Reality Healing, Living & Helping articles, videos, and meetings (article #131). This program does NOT replace HPH; however, it does help you with other types of big changes and challenges that appear to be losses.
- Lean on others and ask for help when you need it. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others by sharing your greatest gifts and following your inner callings.
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Q: Any advice about how to better contact our son is very appreciated. I went to a medium listed on HPH and had a pretty good session with her, but the second session was completely off. - Karen
A: Thank you for asking this very important question, Karen. There are several factors that may or may not apply to your situation. (Articles and audio programs for improvement are listed in parentheses.)
- How good of a 'sender' is your son? This can be affected by his:
- length of time since bodily death; generally, contact is easier for those who have been 'on the other side' for a while
- mental, emotional and physical status at the time of passing
- level of soul advancement (#117 Are You a More Advanced Soul? and #127 Might Children Who Pass On Be More Evolved Souls?)
- awareness of 'the big picture of life' while living on earth (#19 ‘The Great News’ about the Nature of Reality)
How good of a 'receiver' are you? This can be determined by your:
a. level of soul advancement (see #117 above)
b. predominant energies; do you consciously focus on peace, joy, love, gratitude, and enlightenment versus anger, regret, guilt, and hopelessness? (#70 Holistic Breathing Technique and #71 Ask Your Soul, Angels, and The Light)
c. use of practical steps to enhance contact (#9 Visit with Your ‘Departed’ Loved Ones NOW and #28 Afterlife Contacts)
- your soul planning goals; for example, might you learn and grow more without frequent and clear visits and signs from him? (#25 Pre-Birth Planning: Did I REALLY Choose All This?)
- How good is the medium? Scientific research by Gary E. Schwartz PhD, as described in his book The Afterlife Experiments, showed that even the best mediums have 'off days'. What's more, even when 'they are on', the best mediums are only about 75% accurate. Mediums recommended by HPH have been certified after multiple tests but some may not work out over time. Please provide feedback by emailing me and/or via the Contact Box at HelpingParentsHeal.org.
Karen, review these factors and improve the ones you can. To communicate with your son without a medium, use my Afterlife Contact audio program (free at SoulProof.com/Shop). Many parents have reported wonderful visits using this approach. In addition, your ability to sense and visit with your child may generalize over time so you eventually don't need the audio program. Use that for 60 days and let me know how it's going.
To you and all parents and family members, email me at mark@soulproof.com if you have any big questions and/or tough challenges you would like assistance with.
Hugs, love, blessings, and let it shine!
Mark
Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor, master’s level clinical psychologist, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher. While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education. He also has extensive post-graduate training in clinical nutrition.
Mark is an honorary board member for HPH and has helped the organization help parents since 2014. Mark is the spokesperson and strategic planner for the SoulPhone Project and an honorary board member for HPH. He directs the Greater Reality Healing, Living, and Helping Program that helps people do just that. His mission is to help you know and show that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.
Disclaimer: This information is NOT designed to replace traditional medical or psychological care. Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on 50+ years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health clinics. Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on his current understandings and firsthand experiences.