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Sandy UUsitalo's validation with Kai through Beth Lynch

Sandy UUsitalo's validation with Kai through Beth Lynch

  • Posted
    • Aug
    • 1
    • 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson

Before HPH’s gallery reading with Beth Lynch on 7/28/25, I asked my son if I should attend. He said yes. I then asked whether he would come through if I attended. Yes again.

Beth advised us to think of something we would each want our child to mention and I settled on our dog, Elliott. I was looking at a portrait of Elliott drawn by my nephew, and Beth had been having a week of many pets showing up.

Throughout Beth’s readings with other parents and their children, I felt Kai (my son) coming through with references to acts, events and people. I won’t go into detail about those now but there were many, perhaps in every reading, and I was noticing.

When Beth was told to say “Simon” I knew she was with Kai so I spoke up. Simon is our dog. He and Elliott, both on the other side, were rescue dogs who had always been together. I’ve had strong feelings that Kai and Simon hang out together.

Beth saw a court, a pickle ball court. I’m a novice. When she made some motions and said I was good at it I sensed, but didn’t say, that Kai was probably referring to the years I played volleyball. He knows how much I loved it. I was better at it than I am at pickle ball.

Beth saw hands on a steering wheel. Very recently I felt (again) Kai telling me to pay attention and be more careful while driving. I have a clear memory of looking at my hands on the steering wheel and thanking Kai while this was happening.

It was, of course, more than meaningful to hear Beth describe Kai standing behind me to rub my shoulders and assure me of his presence and love.

Beth had said before beginning the readings that our children sometimes show us someone they watch over.

When Kai showed her a big C it was obviously for my daughter’s 14-month-old child, Chloe Kai. I know Kai had everything to do with Chloe’s arrival—an unexpected blessing to her entire family—and that he watches over her. I believe Kai and my daughter’s dad placed a heart-shaped birthmark on Chloe as a gift and message to all of us.

Kai said, “Say my t-shirts.” Kai used to write unique phrases on t-shirts. I have some. Some were given to his friends. Beth saw me smelling a shirt. I had recently buried my face in one of Kai’s wool jackets to smell his scent, still present after 6+ years.

Beth accurately saw tall Kai hugging short me. I could always hear his heart beating in his chest when we hugged.

Beth saw looking up at big trees, maybe pines, she said. I had just returned from a walk among trees, and had been looking up into large white pines. Kai WAS walking with me, as Beth said.

She saw holding hands. There was a way that Kai and I often held hands. When I put my hands together in that way, I feel him. I do talk to him all the time, and Beth knew that.

Kai showed Beth a cross. I’ve been putting together a sort of memorial site, and wanted to purchase a plant hanger tri-pod from a couple via market place. When I met the husband to pick it up, they wouldn’t accept any money. He gave me a beautiful cross that he had made out of wood and twine with a card referring to Jesus…seeking and finding, asking and being given. Beth then saw holding hands again. There is particular personal meaning in the words Beth spoke, “I’ll always be there. I’ll always be there, Mom, just like you were always AND are.”

Kai acknowledged his sister and Chloe by prompting Beth to say, “Milk.” Aila, my daughter, asks Chloe if she wants some milk before nursing her. Kai wants Aila to know he will watch over Chloe, and I know this is true. This was the end of a beautiful reading and another parent’s child came through.

I want Beth to know that I just love her Jack Daniels story, as I have seen the mailbox of a Jack Daniels in Florida! (I won’t say where in this space.)

With endless gratitude for Beth Lynch and Helping Parents Heal, I thank you. Blessings to all the parents and families. May you believe and know.

~All the love, Sandy

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