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The Wisdom of Greg by Susan and Bill Van Oije - ONENESS and the ONE

The Wisdom of Greg by Susan and Bill Van Oije - ONENESS and the ONE

  • Posted
    • Oct
    • 5
    • 2023
by Elizabeth Boisson
Written by Susan Van Oije with Bill and Greg
Bill is just an ordinary guy who has had extraordinary things happen to him since the passing of his son Greg. Susan writes it all down. The Calgary, Canada affiliate leaders are on an amazing journey with their son. 
Our children in spirit have a front-row seat to witness the most amazing truth of the Universe. Where they are now, our children are able to see clearly that everyone and everything is connected in a beautiful vibrational web of Love that they know as Oneness.
Those of us on planet Earth are prevented from fully seeing and embracing this Universal fact by the created distractions and challenges of living here. Our number one goal to achieve during our time here is to break through the distractions and see what our children see: a Universe of Oneness.
In his conversations with his Dad, our son in spirit Greg has told us that the Creator and overseer of this infinite web of Love is someone who Greg has variously called the One, our Creator, our Source, God, the Divine, the All Knowing, the One Energy, the Universe, the Great I Am, the One Love, the All Knowing, and our Mother/Father. 
I have a feeling that the One doesn't care what we call Him/Her, just call and connect!
Greg, who passed from this Earth nine years ago at the age of 27 from the effects of drug abuse, is able to communicate with his Dad through dreams and during waking hours. Bill hears Greg talking to him in his head, and then automatic writes Greg's message. Recently, Greg communicated this message to his Dad about connecting with the Source of Oneness:
"Your alignment to Source, to our God, and all His/Her loving energy, is your number one objective while you are in the physical on Earth. When you are here where I am, that connection is as natural as breathing is to you on Earth. 
"We are all naturally connected to the Source being part of the Great I Am and the consciousness of the multiverse, but as every day unfolds in your plane, daily events distract you from that connection that you had. To be able to make this connection while challenged by all the distractions is what it is all about. Not being connected is what results in lack of health, lack of abundance, lack of love, lack of gratitude and respect and love for all living things. 
"Nothing should come to harm, and all actions should be for the betterment of all. So in your everyday living, concentrate, meditate and pray that you are connected and following the wishes of our God, to be in constant alignment with the Creator's Source of life for all things. That results in easy answers to all that life can present, if you are in the flow with our God and the Universe's energy. 
"Overcoming this separation is your number one goal and be aware and grow your consciousness in this direction at all times. Ask regularly, 'What is my connection right now?' and if something does not feel right, you are not aligned to Source. Keep checking until all thoughts are free of any fear and angst. Be at peace and be aligned to the One. Anything else is a distraction from who you are, and that causes pain and suffering. Love, joy, peace, always, Greg."
It turns out that whether we know it or not, we are already in a state of eternal Oneness with our Source energy. Waking up to that fact can take lifetimes and everyone is on their own journey at their own pace, but our kids in spirit have given us the opportunity to make a great Soul leap!
Allow yourself to imagine what it would be like on Earth right now if everyone knew that we all come from the same place of Love, we are all connected, and what each of us thinks and feels and does affects all, and then put into practice a way of life to reflect that knowledge. That would truly be Heaven on Earth. We're obviously not there yet, but many are waking up to this understanding of Oneness.
We can strengthen our connection to our Source and experience Oneness through meditation or just a few moments of quiet stillness, as well as prayer, yoga, walks in nature, and a focus on living in a heart-centered way with an attitude of gratitude.
It takes practice to tap into the flow of the Universe and often the connection can be fleeting, but when it does occur, you know it. It's a joyful and transcendent experience. As Greg has said to his Dad, he is in a place now where he feels that joy, love and peace all the time, and he is "whole." 
We take great comfort in knowing that, after years of struggle, our son Greg - and all of our children in spirit - are in a place of Oneness, a place where connection to God's loving energy is "as natural as breathing." 
If you would like to hear more about our amazing experiences, Bill and I have twice spoken to HPH and the videos are available on the HPH YouTube channel: click here HPH welcomed Susan & Bill Van Oije, 'From Wow to How!' - YouTube for our most recent video detailing the beautiful messages Greg gives us about how to live our best life in this very challenging place and grow our souls, and click here On February 3rd, Bill Van Oije spoke to Helping Parents Heal - YouTube for the video in which Bill details some of the astounding signs we've received from our son.

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