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The Wisdom of Greg - WE ARE ETERNAL AND LIVING AN INFINITE EXPERIENCE

The Wisdom of Greg - WE ARE ETERNAL AND LIVING AN INFINITE EXPERIENCE

  • Posted
    • Oct
    • 3
    • 2025
by Elizabeth Boisson
Written by Susan Van Oije with Bill and Greg
Bill is just an ordinary guy who has had extraordinary things happen to him since the passing of his son Greg. Susan writes it all down. The Calgary, Canada affiliate leaders are on an amazing journey with their son. 

WE ARE ETERNAL AND LIVING AN INFINITE EXPERIENCE

As Shining Light Parents, our children on the other side have given us an extraordinarily important gift: an understanding that we did not lose them when they passed. While some have always believed that there is no death and we are eternal, many of us reach this understanding after a child transitions, through our own undeniable experiences and what we're learning with the help of Helping Parents Heal.

Believing that our children are still with us while they live happy, healthy and whole in another realm can be the start of an incredible journey, because our children have built a foundation for us from which to expand our understanding of the Universe, and our place in it. 

It's what happened to Bill and I when our 27-year-old son Greg passed 11 years ago. Through his deep communication with his Dad over the years, Greg has revealed to us many universal truths - and often reminds us that it's just the tip of the iceberg.

One of the subjects Greg has often talked about is that we are eternal and living an infinite experience. 

If you ponder that statement for a moment, and really let it sink in, it can pull you right out of the story that you're living right now on Earth, and catapult you into a view of yourself that is unlimited, boundless, and forever. That's a huge leap of consciousness for us as we try to wrap our 3D brains around the meaning of that revelation, but it's what our children know is true on the other side. 

Greg tells us that not only are we eternal beings who live forever, we are living an infinite experience. His description of that infinite experience is mind boggling: "We are all here at once in many universes, in many dimensions, in many stories, in many physical bodies, and in many worlds, in many alien races experiencing the total experience of being all at once in one moment. Having a memory of only one of those moments at a time, but able to remember every day during your dreams to see how everything is going and to be given guidance for all those moments, to make adjustments as desired and receive counsel if requested. Think about that for a while. It's all us.

"You get to experience all this as one soul expressing God for eternity. Amazing, isn't it? Achieve anything you want, but remember, it is driven by love. Love triumphs all."

Until our son on the other side started to help us understand, Bill and I had no idea about the astounding complexity and depth of what is really going on with our soul's journey. In an effort to help us comprehend the enormity of what he's conveying to us, Greg has described it in this very Greg way: "It is gargantuanly infinite and exponentially eternal."

Greg recently shared another message about our eternal and infinite nature that's intended for all parents with a child in spirit: "We have a wish for you all, and are assisting whenever we can to help you come to this understanding and awakening. The understanding that you are pure love, that you are made of light, and that you are an eternal being, an expression of the Divine Creator. How important it is to come to know that you are so much more than your story. That your story plays out over a very short period of time compared to the larger picture. That understanding of your infinite self, an eternal soul.

"This knowledge is what makes it easier to begin the healing process. You know your child or children are in a loving place, healthy and happy. They are watching over you and assisting and guiding you when possible to help you navigate this short time on Earth, knowing that one day they will be reunited with you and that will be a wonderful day of celebration.

"In the meantime, pursue the goal of achieving as much happiness and joy as possible until that wondrous day when we can be together again. Remember, love never dies. Only the physical expression for the soul fades with time here on Earth. Our energy continues on forever, and when you leave this mortal coil, the real journey begins.

"You are truly the courageous. Through acceptance of your circumstance you will find the blessing in your awakening to who you really are, a powerful expression of God. Your children know this to be true. Follow their lead. Love to you all."

We can all take great comfort in the undeniable fact that our love for our beloved children on the other side - and their love for us - is infinite and eternal. 

If you would like to hear more about our amazing experiences, Bill and I have twice spoken to HPH and the videos are available on the HPH YouTube channel: click here HPH welcomed Susan & Bill Van Oije, 'From Wow to How!' for the video detailing the beautiful messages Greg gives us about how to live our best life in this very challenging place and grow our souls, and click here On February 3rd, Bill Van Oije spoke to Helping Parents Heal for the video in which Bill details some of the astounding signs we've received from our son.

 



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