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Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences March 2024

Evolved Souls Don't Need Long Earthly Experiences March 2024

  • Posted
    • Feb
    • 21
    • 2024
by Elizabeth Boisson

Evolved Souls Don’t Need Long Earthly Experiences
March 2024 by Mark Pitstick, MA, DC

To all family members, I am very sorry about the death of your child’s human form.  (I word it that way because he / she didn't really die.)  However, I’m glad you are learning how to heal and transform despite this seeming tragedy.  Six key understandings to making that shift are:

     1. Over 99% of who and what your child 'was' is still alive in the next phase of life.  This is true no matter how they passed on.  See the following articles at for a review of the scientific, clinical, and experiential evidence for this statement.

  1. Only their earthly body died: everything else continues – all the love, energy, sense of humor, memories, personality, energetic / spiritual body, and much more.

  2. They are happy, peaceful, loving, and enthusiastic – and want you to be that way now too. Read article #2 When a Child Changes Worlds and #93 For Bereaved Parents and Family Members to learn how you can do that. 

         4. You will see them when you pass on and can enjoy a different kind of relationship now.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #9 Visit With ‘Departed’ Loved Ones Now
         5. You can choose – moment by moment – to transmute your grief into a spiritually transformative experience that powerfully improves your life and blesses others.  To learn how, see article #82 Journey from 'Bereaved' to 'Shining Light'

         6. You can heal and share gifts from their life and transition from earth by lovingly serving others.  Read article #84 Heal and Transform Your Suffering.

After a child changes worlds, family members understandably feel much pain, sadness, anger, guilt, and other lower-energy emotions.   No one could or should ever judge that.  However, many have learned to regularly use keys #1 - 6 above and, over time, and feel more peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  To learn more about how you can do this, see article #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being.    

You can do the same.  It’s not easy and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it is possible with small steps day by day using the above keys and six action steps . . .

  1. Attend online HPH meetings on the Calendar and attend local Affiliate Groups.  (If there's not an in-person group nearby, consider staring one.)   
  2. Use Special Interest Groups that offer more focused service for fathers, siblings, parents of children who passed by suicide or substance abuse, and much more.
  3. Contact The Caring Listeners to talk with at no charge
  1. Read free articles at and take relevant action steps
  1. Listen to free Radio Shows at and experts' answers to life’s toughest questions including “Why do children die?”
  1. Lean on others as needed. Later, when you are doing better, you can help others. 

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Q: I hear of other parents getting signs from their kids.  I had a brief dream and occasionally feel our daughter's presence but that's it.  I tried a guided imagery method but couldn't see her at all.  What can I do differently? - Helen

A: Thank you for that great question, Helen.  I can feel the disappointment, sadness, and worry involved so let's create a specially designed program for you.  First, people have different sensory orientations that affects how well they see, feel, hear, know, and smell their loved ones who have moved into the next realm.  From the words in your note, you may be better – at least initially – feeling her presence.  With regular use of the techniques below, however, you may be able to use visual and other senses to detect her. 

In my experience, stuck lower-energy emotions are a very common cause of blocks to sensing a child who has changed worlds.  Those include sadness, loneliness, guilt, anger, and other understandable feelings.  The good news is that you can, moment by moment, choose to focus on higher-energy emotions such as peace, joy, love, and gratitude.  That will put you more on the same wavelength as your daughter and enhance your perception of her.  To do that, I recommend the following:

  1. Read these articles and take relevant action steps before using the experiential sessions:

            #2 When a Child Changes Worlds

            #108 Higher Energies, Emotions, and Ways of Being

            #82 Journey FROM Deeply Grieving TO Shining Light

  1. Use the Holistic Breathing Technique (click the link to use a YouTube session I led for HPH) Start with this as directed for one month.  See article #70 Holistic Breathing Technique to learn more about this safe and powerful approach to healing and remembering the big picture of life.
  2. Next, start using the Ask Your Soul, Angels, and G.O.D. technique AND continue #2 but less often.  For more information about this approach, see article #71 Ask Your Soul, Angels, and G.O.D This session allows you to feel the presence of your higher self, The Light, and your spiritual support team (angels, guides, master teachers, etc.).  You can access your and their wisdom and guidance about how to optimally heal, transform, and sense your daughter. 
  3. Finally, add the Facilitated After Death Contact technique after a month of #3 and two months of #2. By then, you should feel more peaceful, calm, and clear so you can sense her.  To learn more about this technique, see article #9 Visiting 'Departed' Loved Ones Now.

Helen (and all other parents who would like to sense their children better), please put that to work and let me know how you're doing in 90 days. 

~Hugs, love, and blessings as you increasingly heal, transform, and shine!


Note #1: As long as my schedule allows, I will email brief but information and resource-packed replies to any bereaved parent or family member at no charge.  Email me at with your biggest questions and toughest challenges and I'll create a personalized holistic program for you. 

Note #2: My inexpensive audio products, books, and documentary film can help you heal, optimally transform, discover the silver linings to your child's bodily death, and use those to help yourself and others.  Email me if you cannot afford any of these products and we’ll send a complimentary digital copy.  

Disclaimer: This information is not designed to replace medical or psychological care.  Dr. Pitstick’s recommendations are based on over fifty years of training and experience in hospitals, pastoral counseling settings, mental health centers, and chiropractic holistic health practice.  Some of his statements are supported by clinical and scientific data while others are based on experiential evidence and his best current understandings.  

Mark Pitstick, MA, DC is an author, counselor with a masters in clinical psychology, holistic chiropractic physician, frequent media guest, and workshop / webinar teacher.  Mark also completed extensive postgraduate training in clinical nutrition.  While attending theology school majoring in pastoral counseling, he provided suicide prevention counseling and education.  Mark directs The SoulPhone Foundation, founded Greater Reality Living groups, and assists SoulPhone Project research for the Laboratory for Advances in Consciousness and Health.  His mission is to help you know and show – no matter what is happening to you or around you – that this earthly experience is a totally safe, meaningful, and magnificent adventure amidst forever.  Visit for free articles, radio shows, and newsletters. 

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